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Big Training Manual
What is normal for YOUR culture?
Recognizing your own cultural qualities and biases is the first step
to understanding and embracing differences in others.
1. My calendar or schedule planner is…
A. Booked solid weeks in advance.
B. Busy, but flexible if I have a few days
notice.
C. Blocked out with just a few important
events. Otherwise, I like to be spon-
taneous.
D. Schedule? Calendar? Huh?
2. I think children should …
A. Always be given the freedom to play
and explore at their own pace, while
developing their own preferences and
personalities.
B. Have a good balance between play
time and school work.
C. Be occasionally indulged in their
wishes but more often given clear
boundaries and expectations from
adults. Allowances should be earned
by doing chores.
D. Expected to pull their weight and
work as part of the family. In addition
to school, they should help with
house cleaning, care of younger chil-
dren, yard work, etc.
3. When I want to make a good impres-
sion with a new person, I...
A. Make a lot of eye contact, make
jokes and offer to shake hands, so s/
he will be put at ease by my friendly
manner.
B. Smile kindly and lean forward quietly
to show that I am listening. I avoid
direct eye contact so I won’t seem
rude or too forward.
C. Maintain a respectful distance, keep
my face calm and avoid any extrava-
gant body language that could intimi-
date or offend the other person.
D. I don’t have a lot of experience meet-
ing new people.
4. In my family, education is important
because…
A. Whether or not you end up working in
the exact field you studied to get your
degree, college is mind-expanding
and helps you lead a richer, fuller life.
B. Even though many people are suc-
cessful in life without a college de-
gree, having one increases your
chances of being paid well.
C. The older generation sacrificed so the
younger ones can have a chance to
finish High School and maybe even
go to college. It is their responsibility
to make the most of this opportunity.
D. It’s the only way to break away from
our history of poverty and have a
chance at a better life.
5. I think money should be …
A. Invested as much as possible for the
future and otherwise spent carefully
on high quality purchases that will
last a long time.
B. Spent according to a budget so that
basic needs are met, a few splurges
are possible, and10% is saved in the
bank for emergencies.
C. Used to enrich the experiences and
memories we share as a family. In
the future, we will always get by if we
pull together. In the meantime, par-
ties and celebrations make life worth
living.
D. I’ll let you know when I get some!
6. If I want to see someone I...
A. Send an email with possible times
and dates listed.
B. Call at a time I think s/he will be free
answer, look at the calendar and plan
a date.
C. Text something like, “I miss you! Let’s
get together soon.”
D. Stop by his/her house unannounced
next time I’m in the area.
7. When I want to go to a movie…
A. I don’t care that much who I end up
seeing it with, or if I have to go alone.
The important thing is going to a mov-
ie I want to see and will enjoy.
B. I try to talk my friends into seeing the
movies I want to see. If I can’t find
anyone to go to the theatre with me,
I’ll just wait until it is available on-line.
C. I will go to whichever movie most of
my friends/family want to see...the
fun part is that we are all going to-
gether.
D. Why go to the theater when we can
all watch a movie together at home?
8. My personal experience with non-
profits, charities and volunteer organiza-
tions is…
A. I started volunteering and raising
money for worthy causes when I was
a kid. It’s always seemed important
to me.
B. I remember my parents signing up for
stuff, but I never thought about get-
ting involved until I grew up.
C. I think it’s great that other people are
so generous with their time, energy
and money. I don’t know how they do
it.
D. I am really appreciative of the organi-
zations that have supported my fami-
ly.
9. My idea of a low-cost activity is…
A. Going to a movie with a friend. I usu-
ally get a soda and popcorn.
B. Anything under $8 a person is a low-
cost activity to me.
C. A walk on the beach or a hike on a
local trail, and maybe get a snack or
a treat on the way home.
D. The only really low-cost activity is
staying home or going somewhere I
can walk or bike too. Gas is expen-
sive and if you go far from home you
always end up buying a snack or a
meal somewhere and it all adds up.