FRIEND OF THE COURT
ENFORCEMENT OF PARENTING TIME ORDERS
What to Do if You are Denied Parenting Time
State Court Administrative Office
Friend of the Court Bureau
Michigan Supreme Court
http:/courts.michigan.gov/scao
What Should I do When I am Denied Parenting Time?
A party who believes he or she has been denied court ordered parenting time should do all of the
following:
Make sure you were denied parenting time: Review your most recent court order for
parenting time to make sure you were actually denied parenting time.
Submit your complaint: Describe the parenting time violation in writing and give it to
the Friend of the Court (FOC) office. This is known as your parenting time “complaint.”
Include the specific dates and times the parenting time violation occurred. Before
submitting your complaint, it is also best to contact the FOC office to find out if it
requires additional information or has any other important instructions.
Make sure you submit your complaint on time: You must give your written complaint
to the FOC within 56 days of the parenting time violation.
Make a copy of the complaint: Keep your own copy of the complaint.
What Will the FOC Do?
Once the FOC receives a written complaint alleging a parenting time violation, it will:
Verify if it is a valid complaint: The FOC will check to make sure the submitted
parenting time complaint is valid.
o Determine if a violation occurred: The FOC will check the court order to see if
the alleged denial of parenting time violated the order. The FOC may not be able
to enforce certain complaints due to the way some court orders are written.
Example: Some orders state that parenting time will be as
agreed upon by the parties. The FOC may be unable to
determine if the denial in the complaint violates the order if it
does not know what the parties agreed to.
o Checking previous complaints: The FOC will check whether the party
submitting the complaint has submitted two or more unwarranted complaints
where costs were assessed and are unpaid.
o Complaint submitted on time: The FOC will make sure the complaint was
submitted within 56 days from the date the violation occurred.
Send a copy of the complaint to the other party: If the FOC determines a party has
submitted a valid parenting time complaint, it will send the other party a copy of the
complaint within 14 days.
What can the FOC do if There was a Parenting Time Violation?
Makeup Parenting Time: Many FOCs will begin parenting time enforcement by sending a notice
to both parties informing them that the party who denied parenting time is required to provide the
other party makeup parenting time. Either party may object to the makeup parenting time by
submitting a written objection to the FOC within 21 days after the notice is sent. If a party objects
to makeup parenting time, the FOC will select another enforcement procedure. If neither party
objects, the FOC will send another notice to the parties indicating the makeup parenting time must
occur.
Using Makeup Parenting Time. Makeup parenting time must occur within one year,
and must be the same as the parenting time that was denied.
Example: A party gets 1 weekend of makeup parenting if 1 weekend
was denied. The wrongfully denied party is required to notify both
the FOC and the other party in writing before using makeup
parenting time.
Schedule Mediation: The FOC may schedule mediation. During mediation, the parties meet with
an individual appointed by the court who helps the parties resolve their parenting time dispute. If
the parties reach an agreement, the mediator will prepare their agreement and ask the judge to sign
a modified order. If the parties do not reach an agreement, the FOC office may select another
enforcement procedure.
Schedule a Joint Meeting: The FOC may schedule a joint meeting. At a joint meeting, the parties
meet with FOC staff to discuss solutions to the alleged parenting time violation. The FOC may
schedule a joint meeting if the violation includes an issue such as pickup/drop-off times, minor
schedule changes, or the return of a child’s belongings after parenting time. If the parties reach an
agreement, the FOC employee prepares the agreement and asks the judge to sign it. If the parties
do not reach an agreement, FOC employee may recommend an order to the court. A party who
disagrees with the recommendation must submit a written objection to the FOC and a judge or
referee will hold a hearing to resolve the parenting time dispute.
Schedule a Civil Contempt Hearing: For more serious violations, the FOC may schedule a
hearing. These hearings are called contempt or show cause hearings. These hearings might be used
after serious or multiple violations of an order. At the hearing, the alleged violating party has an
opportunity to explain to the judge or referee the reasons for violating the court order, or prove the
violation did not occur. A judge or referee who finds a party violated the court order without good
cause may do any of the following:
Order additional terms;
Modify the parenting time order;
Order makeup parenting time;
Order a fine of $100 or less;
Commit the party to jail or an alternative to jail with work release (not more than 45 days
for the first contempt finding and no more than 90 days for any additional contempt
finding);
Order the parent to participate in a community corrections program;
Place the parent under the supervision of the FOC;
If the party fails to provide makeup parenting time or ongoing parenting time, the judge or referee
may suspend that party’s work, or driver’s, recreational, and sporting licenses.
FOC Requests for Modification of Parenting Time: The FOC may ask the court to modify the
parents’ parenting time order. The FOC typically only requests modification when it is clear the
existing order is not good for the parties or the child, and the parties do not have the ability or
opportunity to do this on their own.
I Want to Change the Current Parenting Time Order - How Do I Do That?
If a party wants to change the current parenting time order, the party can start by doing any of the
following:
Contacting the other party to see if he or she would agree to change the parenting
time order. If the parties reach an agreement, the FOC may prepare a proposed court
order that reflects the agreement. Once signed by the judge it becomes a court order.
Requesting FOC mediation; if the parties agree to change the current order, that
agreement can be signed by the judge to become a modified parenting time order.
Contacting an attorney who may then file a motion to change the order on the party’s
behalf.
Filing a motion without the assistance of an attorney. The parenting time motion form
(FOC 65) is available at:
http://courts.mi.gov/Administration/SCAO/Forms/courtforms/domesticrelations/custo
dy-parentingtime/foc65.pdf.
Please visit the following website for additional parenting time information on the
Michigan Parenting Time Guidelines:
http://courts.mi.gov/Administration/SCAO/Resources/Documents/Publications/Manuals/focb/pt_
gdlns.pdf