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Guide to Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity
Laura Lindstrand
Updated 2/19/2014
(such as race, age, sex), then the employer could ask employees to self-identify their sexual
orientation and gender identity. However, when making a decision about whether or not to ask
for such demographic information, an employer should also keep in mind that sometimes this
information is sensitive or the employee would rather keep it private. If the employer decides to
ask for such information, the non-discriminatory purposes of the questions should be very clear.
Should an employee be allowed leave time to take care of a same-sex spouse, or the parent
or child of a same sex spouse?
The Family Medical Leave Act of 1993 (FMLA) allows legally married couples to obtain leave
up to 12 weeks to care for a spouse or spouse's parent under certain circumstances, such as a
serious illness. In certain circumstances, the employee may also be eligible under FMLA to take
leave to care for their legally adopted child or foster child, or for a newly adopted child. The
FMLA is a federal law, and since federal law is still evolving in this area, employers are
encouraged to contact the U.S. Department of Labor for more specific information.
Washington State's Family Care Act allows workers with available paid sick leave or other paid
time off to care for a sick child with a routine or serious illness; a spouse (including a same sex
spouse), parent, parent-in-law (including the parent of a same sex spouse), or grandparent with a
serious or emergency health condition; or an adult child with a disability. Contact the
Washington State Department of Labor and Industries Protected Leave Unit for more
information.
Any other type of leave, such as leave without pay or shared leave, must be applied consistently;
if an employee can use such leave to care for an opposite sex spouse, then an employee with a
same sex spouse must be allowed to utilize such leave in the same way.
Public Accommodation
What is considered to be a place of public accommodation?
Generally, any place that sells goods, offers food or drink for charge, is a place of entertainment,
recreation or assembly, or is for the lodging of guests is included in the definition of place of
public accommodation, as are schools, government buildings, libraries, museums, medical
offices, public conveyances, and theatres.
Are there exclusions to what is considered to be a place of public accommodation?
Groups that are distinctly private are not included in the definition of place of public
accommodation. Examples would be some fraternal organizations with limited outside activity
and groups such as book clubs that meet in members' homes. In addition, a church or other
religious entity in the activity of conducting worship services is not a place of public
accommodation, and neither are religious educational institutions. However, other church-
sponsored activities, such as a soup kitchen or public bake sale, might be considered a place of
public accommodation.