Written by Labib Rahman and Reviewed by the Stanford Disability Initiative Board
4. Avoid condescending euphemisms
Terms like differently-abled, challenged, and handi-capable are often considered
condescending. By shying away from mentioning disability, we may reinforce the notion that
disability is something of which to be ashamed. The word special is a particularly entrenched
because it can be used as a euphemism but also may be utilized technically (e.g., “special
education”). There is a desire to move away from this word. However, there is also
acknowledgement that terms such as “special needs” are uniquely situated to introduce non-
disabled parents and loved ones of children with disabilities to a rich and complex world of
disability access, inclusion, accommodation rights, and systems of support.
5. Avoid offensive language – even as a joke
Examples of offensive terms: mad, freak, psycho, retard, lame, imbecile, crazy. Don’t call
someone “a retard” or “retarded” if they do something silly, unwise, thoughtless, short-
signed, dangerous, ill-advised, frustrating, etc. Other examples include asking someone
jokingly, “Are you deaf/blind?” “Can’t you see/hear?”
6. Describing people without disabilities
Do not use words that suggest undesirable stereotypes of people with disability. When
describing people without disabilities, don’t use terms like normal, healthy, able-bodied.
Instead, use “non-disabled” or “people without visible disabilities.” Such terms are more
accurate, because we often cannot tell whether someone has a disability just by their
physical appearance.
7. Not all disabilities are illnesses and not all people with disabilities are patients
People with disabilities can be healthy even if they have a chronic condition like diabetes. It is
only appropriate to refer to someone as a patient in a medical setting, regardless of their
disability status.
It is also important to recognize that wellness is an individual endeavor: people with
disabilities experience wellness, physical/health fitness, and recreational activities at myriad
levels. No person, regardless of ability or desire to participate in wellness activities, is more or
less deserving of dignity and respect.