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Lesson Plan – Healthy Relationships
SESSION EIGHT: APPLICATION, PRACTICE, AND RESOURCES
PROCEDURE (CONTINUED):
Tasneem and Kato debrief:
The class should identify this scenario as having several qualities from the healthy relationship list, including:
• Being supported and encouraged
• Being treated as an equal
• Being honest
Tasneem and Kato have different interests, but still support one another in the things that are important
to them. Neither of them feels the need to give up their individual interest or feels forced to join the
interest of the other person. They are honest with each other and were able to negotiate a compromise
that they were both happy with.
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Teacher’s Note: If you are able to explore same–sex relationships, it can be a great teaching opportunity to
make the names of the two characters in either scenario the same gender.] This can normalize relationships
between gay, lesbian and bisexual people and reinforce that everyone, no matter their sexual orientation,
deserves to be in a healthy relationship. If your leaners express the opinion that two people of the same
gender being in a romantic relationship with each other is never a healthy choice, it’s important to point out
that, although people have differing beliefs about the rightness or wrongness of gay and lesbian relationships,
any two people’s relationship can have healthy or unhealthy characteristics, such as those listed on the
handout. Some gay and lesbian relationships are healthy and some are not, just like some heterosexual
relationships are healthy and some are not. Redirect the conversation by explaining that the point of the
lesson is to give learners tools to evaluate the health of their own relationships.
Step 6) 10 minutes
Explain to students, “I want to thank you for really taking the time to think about what would be important
to you in a relationship, and what might be some signs that a relationship is unhealthy. Now let’s think about
how communication fi ts into a healthy relationship, as good communication is fundamental to a healthy
relationship.” Hand out Effective Communication Tips Handout to each learner and review together with
the group by asking any of the following questions:
• What do you think about the communication tips on this handout?
• Which ones do you already use?
• Which ones do you think are more diffi cult to use and why?
• Why do you think these tips lead to more effective communication?
Close the lesson by saying, “Relationships are at the heart of being human and everyone deserves happy
and healthy relationships. Hopefully some of the information we discussed today will help you have healthy
relationships in the future.”