Co-developing a safety plan involves a
collaborative, in-depth conversation
between the person experiencing
thoughts of suicide and their caregiver
or friend.
Go over each step together,
thoroughly and thoughtfully (Berk
& Clarke, 2019). There may be times
where, through organic or structured
conversation, you will identify
potential safety plan items for the
person - bring these into the plan!
For example, if someone mentions
that they need to get home to spend
time with their dog, that is a potential
reason to live. You can suggest adding
the positive things you hear coming
from that person at any point.
How to
co-develop
a safety plan
How to
implement
a safety plan
“You talked about how excited your
dog is to see you when you get home
earlier. Can you tell me a bit more
about him?” Then, “It sounds like he’s
really important to you. Do you think
we could add him onto your safety
plan as a reason for living, or as a
reason that you’re still alive?”
Once complete, you and the person
who has had thoughts of suicide should
keep copies of the safety plan in an
accessible place. The safety plan needs
to be handy so that the person can
always find it when they are
experiencing intense thoughts of
suicide. Some people choose to always
keep their plan with them, e.g. on their
phone or in their wallet.
Each step in the safety plan plays
a role in supporting the person with
thoughts of suicide, as well as yourself,
and other friends and caregivers. Refer
to the “Suicide safety plan” for how and
when to implement each step.
Keep in mind that the safety plan is
not written in stone: it can be revised
as oen as is needed. The plan can be
reviewed at any time, and especially
if the person experiencing thoughts
of suicide has found any portion of
it ineective in helping them cope
with their thoughts. For example, if
one contact person was found to be
dicult to get in touch with on several
occasions, or if a coping strategy is no
longer eective or accessible.